From, the middle of the conversation

There is always a huge gap in between "What we assume to What actually is".Assumptions are made easy, after-all what does it cost us? Absolutely free of mind,cooked up with a little extra.Adding little extra in the end will add up spice to content. We usually rely on highlight reels to know right from the basic to complex information, just like how facebook works.From reminding our partner's birthday to our combined anniversaries, it has become a saviour though.It is indeed funny to recall, how it used to be and how it is
evolved .Then, to know about a person for accepting a proposal for instance would require the entire chain process, connecting right from family,friends,relatives,and even neighbours.But,now it is just a matter of one click, and then scroll and then deep dive into comments especially those extremely sweet and  buttery ones.There's no better example to echo, "times have changed". If it ends here it would have been a happy start to a great life but then why does only one,have all the fun ? Let's dig deeper says your instinct. In doing so, now we all will, have the fun.
After deep diving, now its time for reading between the lines, going beyond emoticons, analysing the real motive behind the entire post to start with.I mean look at us, we are living in a space where, we want the world to know first whom we are dating.We can never go on a date without announcing it on social media.We spend time clicking selfies,posting food pictures.It is a sign that you are more concerned about how the online world sees you.It is where the story of "Assumptions" begin.What they show us, is probably not what actually is.And what you show them is probably more than what you can actually think.In between, people like us, are busy cooking in our brains and the additonal P.S  contributes to that little extra . Not only on social media even in a face to face conversation or in a casual meet up we tend to perceive the entire situation mostly based on our assumptions.Little we know, is more than required, to reach a conclusion.The funny part is, it is vice-versa.The same has happened recently when I was talking to a friend over phone.In middle of the conversation there was a point where, we started assuming the opposite person was lucky enough to have a life, that they are leading when compared to the other.And this is exactly how assumptions work in placing ourselves in their shoes without actually having it.In doing so we gradually ended up saying this is a "Circle of life" with a bright smile.
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